So the wife got in a accident today. She's ok but our families only vehicle is done. My truck broke down months ago. I'm thankful she's ok. I am getting tired of the 2 steps forward 3 steps back dance... View MoreSo the wife got in a accident today. She's ok but our families only vehicle is done. My truck broke down months ago. I'm thankful she's ok. I am getting tired of the 2 steps forward 3 steps back dance in life though. It's like every time we get ahead something happens then something else happens then we're behind and stressed to the max! We're good people. We keep to ourselves. Dont lie, steal, cheat. We earn our way honestly. It never fails though. My fiance is in the middle of college on a loan and now she's provably gonna miss classes get kicked off her aid program and her dream will be down the toilet, a dream I've busted my ever loving ass off to make sure we were fine while she focused on school. I even paid for a lot of the schooling. For what? She doesn't deserve this. She's such a good person and has been dealt such a shitty hand.
Take it one day at a time. Dont overstress yourself, nerves wont make it any better. I know this, and Whats done is done and id feel the way time cant be changed if i could and all that, although its best to stay focused and not worry. Just dont hurt your heart over such a thing. Glad noone is h... View MoreTake it one day at a time. Dont overstress yourself, nerves wont make it any better. I know this, and Whats done is done and id feel the way time cant be changed if i could and all that, although its best to stay focused and not worry. Just dont hurt your heart over such a thing. Glad noone is hurt. Always, much love dmt family. All you can do is keep pushing forward. Take care of yourselves in your heartrate, i would smoke spliff and try to relax as much as you can. Thats what matters most is what you can do now to find som happieness, some peace on earth. Oh, psychedelics always gave me clear and bright ideas to get out of some dark times. Maybe pop some shrooms with her and chill and figure it out in a more mindful mood than just regular and not stoned. Can help to clear negative energy and give you ideas that pop, may change your life experience in a positive direction more so. I at least am one who beleives it, lsd and shrooms are smart drugs. They fix emotional trauma even when it seems all hope is lost and they show you that there is a light on the otherside of the tunnel. They provide hope in a bad time for me. Get lots of rest and keep that brain smart, man. Sleep is key ingredient to happieness and good idea processing as we know.
Maybe see if she can do a ride share. Possibly a swap with a friend or classmate. Like babysitting or dog walking for rides. I had to do that when I didn't have a car and had to get to school. I even did people's homework for rides.
Does she have a contact list of everyone in class. Reach out for he... View MoreMaybe see if she can do a ride share. Possibly a swap with a friend or classmate. Like babysitting or dog walking for rides. I had to do that when I didn't have a car and had to get to school. I even did people's homework for rides.
Does she have a contact list of everyone in class. Reach out for help and make some calls.
I know this dance you are going through. Don't give up, you guys will get through it.
Glad she is ok!