Amanoro
on June 9, 2026
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It's been a long time since I've posted here.
Life looks very different than it did during the years when I was active in this community.
Since then, I've become a father. My son, Emerson, entered my life and changed my understanding of love, responsibility, and what it means to participate in something larger than myself. Of all the journeys I've taken, parenthood has been the most profound.
Professionally, I've spent the last several years working as a psychotherapist and psychedelic-assisted therapy provider, sitting with hundreds of people navigating trauma, addiction, grief, healing, and transformation. Those experiences challenged many of the assumptions I once held about what healing actually is.
Along the way, I began developing a framework called Functional Systems Regulation Theory (FSRT). At its core is a simple observation: human beings do not develop, suffer, or heal in isolation. We exist within relationships, families, communities, cultures, and histories. What we often call symptoms are frequently adaptive responses to systems that have lost the capacity to regulate together.
After seven years of writing, questioning, revising, and trying to make sense of my own experiences with psychedelics, recovery, mental health, and human development, I recently completed a book:
*Healing Beyond the Limits of the Isolated: Functional Systems Regulation Theory - Orientation (Volume I).*
Looking back, many of the conversations I had here helped shape that journey. DMT World was one of the places where I first encountered people willing to explore questions that extended beyond conventional frameworks of reality, consciousness, healing, and meaning.
For that, I am grateful.
One thing I've come to appreciate over the years is that psychedelic experiences are often easier to have than they are to integrate. The visions, insights, entities, revelations, and mysteries can be extraordinary. But what has become increasingly important to me is not what happened during the experience. It's what remained afterward. What changed in the way we relate to ourselves, to others, and to life itself.
So I wanted to stop by, say hello, and reconnect with this community.
I'm curious:
What insights from your psychedelic experiences have remained true years later?
Which beliefs or realizations felt unquestionably true at the time, but changed as life continued to unfold?
And perhaps most importantly, how have your experiences influenced the way you live your life today?
I'd love to hear where everyone's journey has taken them.
Much love,
Alan Romano, LCSW
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