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Setting..setting..SetAll relationships regardless of type, come with a guarantee of personal pain when entering into one with another person, this is a conceptual and accepted fact.This may be the only form of permanence within an idea of impermanence.The temporary bubble we surround ourselves with, to shield us from the obvious does work and works very well indeed. Within this bubble, we nurture our expectations, enjoy the highs and lows of the moment. The illusion allows us to bypass the pain of the pre-outcome, well are not most relationships a facade, those that play and master it do so at each owns expense.The partner with the most love shoulders the burden, equanimity of love for another. Just like love, people are at different points in their lives, one may be further along, the other struggling.These struggles may be taken on by the strong spirit, and in turn, impact the growth of the suffering one. More harm created, all to maintain the bubble.The awareness of this situation is critical, looking at the long term picture, it cannot last. Detachment with love, that is projecting your love for this person while slowly moving out of their lives and not taking on their suffering, becoming the observer, not the taskmaster.Confidence within yourself for these actions are correct, it’s a selfless act, understanding this helps to stave off indecision created by the fear of the unknown and change.The memory of this relationship is the permanence life does guarantee, here is the gift, knowing it happened, and loving another unconditionally from afar and receiving the joy from doing so.